How to do self-hypnosis

Self Hypnosis is an effective way of dealing with stress and anxiety below is a guide to self-hypnosis to help you get started.

(1) Get into comfortable clothing. It’s pretty hard entering any kind of deep, relaxed state when all you can think about is the waistband of your jeans cutting off your circulation. So take this as an excuse to throw on some comfy clothing. You want absolutely nothing distracting you.

Make sure the temperature is good, too. Have a blanket or a warm top ready if you feel chilly. Sometimes feeling warm can be very comforting, too.

(2) Go to a quiet room and sit in any comfortable chair or bed. Although some people prefer to lie down, you are more susceptible to sleep than when sitting up. Whether you sit or lie, ensure that you do not cross your legs or any part of your body. You may be in this position for a while and this could end up being uncomfortable.

(3) Make sure you are not going to be disturbed for at least half an hour. No self-hypnosis is effective if, a phone call or your pet interrupts it. Turn off your phone, lock the door. This is you time.

The amount of time you want to dedicate to this is up to you. Most prefer to be in a trance for about 15 or 20 minutes.

(4) Figure out your hypnosis goals. Are you doing it just to relax? For self-improvement? If you’re doing it to achieve a greater end (stress reduction, anxiety, etc.), prepare a list of affirmations. Self-hypnosis can be used just for relaxation, but it can be for a number of life-enhancing things, too. Many use it to achieve their goals, change their thinking, or just as general positive reinforcement or motivation. Here are some examples of affirmations you could try:

  • If you want to think more positively, aim for something like, “I am capable of whatever I set my mind to. I am in control and I am valuable.”
  • If you want to reach a specific goal, like weighting loss, saying it in the present tense: “I am eating healthy. I am losing my excess weight. My clothes feel better and I feel better.”
    • These are statements you will be reciting to yourself when you’re under. Again, it’s up to you, but many find them life affirming and effective.


(5) Close your eyes and work to rid your mind of any feelings of fear, stress, or anxiety. When you begin, you might find it difficult not to think. You may find that thoughts just keep popping up. When this happens, don’t try to force the thoughts out. Observe them impartially, and then let them slip away.

  • Alternatively, some like to pick a point on the wall and focus on it. It could be the corner, a door handle; it could be wherever you want it to be. Focus on the point, concentrating on your eyelids. Repeat to yourself that they’re getting heavier and heavier and let them close when you cannot keep them open anymore.

(6) Recognize the tension in your body. Beginning with your toes, imagine the tension slowly falling away from your body and vanishing. Imagine it freeing each body part one at a time starting with your toes and working its way up your body. Visualize each part of your body becoming lighter and lighter as the tension is removed.

  • Relaxyour toes, then your feet. Continue with your legs, stomach and so on, until you’ve relaxed each part of you, including your face and head. Using imagery techniques of something you find comforting or soothing, such as water (feel the water rushing over your feet and ankles, cleansing them of tension) can be effective as well.

(7) Take slow, deep breaths. When you exhale, see the tension and negativity leaving in a dark cloud. As you inhale, see the air returning as a bright force filled with life and energy.

  • At this point, you can use visualizationas you so choose. Imagine your stress blowing away in the breeze. Imagine you running that extra weight. Get as detailed as possible. Always think of your five senses.

(8) Appreciate the fact that you are now extremely relaxed. Imagine you are at the top of a flight of 10 stairs, which at the fifth step start to submerge into water. Picture every detail of this scene from the top to the bottom. Tell yourself that you are going to descend the stairs, counting each step down, starting at 10. Picture each number in your mind. Imagine that each number you count is further down and one step closer to the bottom. After each number, you will feel yourself drifting further and further into deep relaxation.

  • As you take each step, imagine the feel of the step under your feet. Once you are at the fifth step imagine and truly feel the refreshing coolness of the water and tell yourself that you are stepping into an oasis of purity and cleanliness. As you begin to descend the last five steps, start to feel the water getting higher and higher up you’re body. You should now start to feel somewhat numb and your heart will start to race a bit, but notice it and let any anxiety about the situation just drift away into the water.

(9) Feel a floating sensation. At this point at the bottom of the water you shouldn’t really feel anything, just the sensation of floating freely. You may even feel like you’re spinning. If you do not feel as stated above, try again, slower with a will to grasp what is happening. Once you have achieved this state you should proceed to address your problems and decide upon what it is you want from where you are.

  • Now start to tell yourself what you are doing; speak in the present and future tense quietly to yourself, or as if you are reading it from a page.
  • Start to picture three boxes under the water that you have to swimto get to. Once you have found the boxes, open them slowly, one at a time, and tell yourself what is happening when you open the box. For example, “As I open the box I feel a radiant light engulf me, I feel it becoming a part of me. This light is my new found confidence that I can never lose as it is now a part of me” and then proceed on to the next box.
  • You should avoid using statements with a negative connotation, such as “I don’t want to be tired and grumpy.” Instead, say, “I am becoming calm and relaxed.” Examples of positive statements include: “I am strong and happy,” “I am successful and positive,” and, if you have pain, “My back is beginning to feel wonderful.”

(10) Repeat your statement to yourself as many times as you wish. Feel free to wander about the water, visualizing yourself emptying boxes, finding treasure (in the form of self-confidence, happiness, etc.), or simply letting all your tensions disappear. Find areas where the water is cold, hot, or full of wildlife. Let your imagination really go.

(11) Get ready to exit your hypnotic state. With each step you take, feel the water becoming lower and lower until you have once again reached that fifth step. Once you are out of the water and are on the sixth step you may start to feel heavy or as if there is a weight on your chest. Merely wait on the step until this passes, constantly repeating your aforementioned statements.

  • Once it passes, continue up the stairs, visualizing each step by its number, feeling the steps underneath you. Will yourself to carry on up the stairs.

(12) Once you have ascended, give yourself a few moments before opening your eyes. You may want to visualize yourself opening a door to the outside world. Do this slowly and imagine the light that pours in through the doorway; this should make your eyes open naturally. If you need to, count down from ten, telling yourself that once you finish, your eyes will open.

  • Take your time getting up. Then tell yourself, “Wide awake, wide awake,” or something you’re used to, in order to wake up. This will put your mind back in the conscious state, bringing you back to reality.


Although this visualization uses water you can use anything you like such as a wood, beach anything you like really. I use the water visualization because it works for me; it’s all about experimenting and finding what works for you.


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